what is that Parents game that it says you need a minimum level on to get some dragons and how does one get around it?

You could get around it by breeding a dragon with some of the required elements with a Legendary element dragon. The Legendaries override level requirements, but that means that any dragon possible from the elements of the non-Legendary parent are possible. In short, it really is just faster to suck it up and feed 'em to level whatever.